You might know the situation. To wake up in a strangers bed with a man, whose name you aren't quite sure of what is. On top of everything you have a hangover and a irrepressible desire to escape without any goodbyes after a night with sex, which never quite became any good

If you do, then you aren't alone. The term, one-night-stand has a negative sound for many people, but it doesn't have to be like that. Camilla on 31 and Anna on 28 has with great success had many hot men between their legs for judt one night. OneNightStandDate.com has asked them for their best tricks.

Just once!

Don't go for one-night-stands if you are really looking for a boyfriend. It's no surprise, that one-night-stands suffer from bad publicity. There's nothing worse then beeing promised a house, weddingdress and a poodle and then ending up with a wet stain on your sheets and a man, who has no intention of returning your phonecall. But if you take the temperature of your "love-sickness" and act accordingly, then you can avoid many disappontments.

Pure raw sexdrive!

Basically you'll never say no to having a boyfriend if it's the right guy, but there are definitely periods, in which I'm more lovesick than others. And I know that in those periods it's much too hard beeing left in the middle of the night or next morning. Then it's not worth it, says Anna, who has been single for 3 years and has had somewhere around 20 one-night-stands.

You should never sleep with a guy, because you need someone to spoon up with, Camilla adds. She just married her boyfriend through 2 years. Before she met him, she had about 50 one-night-stands. - It's pure raw sexdrive and nothing else. One should never confuse it with pure intimacy or love. If that's what you need, then go for a man, who is willing to give you more the a few hours attention, she says.

No, you are NOT slutty!

Even though one should think that we have moved on, then the middleaged perception of woman sleeping with men, without beeing in love with them, still sticks. And even though you'd never dream of labelling your "sisters" as beeing cheap or anything else condescending, we'd like to tak a stand for this conception beeing extinct.

- You are as cheap as you make yourself. The feeling of beeing cheap can easily come sneaking along, if you slept with someone you weren't really attracted to or that you wanted more of and got rejected.

If you feel just like Camilla and Anna, and think that now it is time for one night stand, Join them. They are active members of http://www.onenightstandsex.com.


See you there.

Yair Czitrom
One Night Stand Dating